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Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Grocery List

After my Grandma passed away we were going through her belongings and I found a great cream wool cardigan of hers. I asked if I could take it home, and since it was the middle of summer, hung it up in my closet. There it sat until the following winter. When the weather had turned bitterly cold, I grabbed that cardigan to keep warm and instantly smelled my Grandma. I was so surprised that after months of hanging in my closet it still carried her scent. It wasn't the smell of her perfume, and I don't think I could ever actually describe it but it was just a smell of comfort, love, and warmth. I remember that smell as I sat on her lap as a young girl, and just from the smell of that old sweater, I was taken back to many happy memories of her. I got so much comfort wearing that sweater and the scent that it still carried, that I held off on washing it as long as possible. However, the time to wash it had finally come, and I new that after that it would never smell the same. I reached into the pockets to make sure they were empty, and my hand felt a piece of paper that I had never even noticed before. I took it out, and there in my Grandmother's handwriting was a shopping list.
* Candy
* Potatoes
* Plates
What more could you ever need?
Of course there would be candy - and of course it would be the first thing on the list. She had a sweet tooth, and her candy dish would always be full, there would always be cookies (Fig Newton’s or gingersnaps to be exact), and rice crispy bars waiting to be shared.
In the final months of her life, she was quite ill and eating was a chore for her, but she could always have a little candy, and whenever you brought a small bowl of jellybeans (black being her favorite) over to her, she would give you the sweetest smile...like a small child. I loved seeing that smile, so I made sure her little candy bowl was always filled.
I like to imagine what this little shopping list was for. Were they planning on having all of us over to their house and that is why she needed plates? Were the potatoes for my Grandpa's yummy soup? If my assumption is correct, I know we all had a wonderful time visiting, I am sure my Grandpa's soup was delicious, and I am sure my Grandma shared her candy with all of us.
The sweater has now been washed many times, and although it no longer smells like her. I still enjoy the comfort it brings every time I put it on, but I really do cherish that shopping list left in her pocket. I  have plans to frame that list, but right now it sits on my dresser, when I am getting ready in the morning it always brings a smile to my face and is a great start to my day, remembering her.
I received some things of my Grandfather's also, and one special item makes me giggle whenever I see it. That will have to wait until another time to share however, because the weather is beautiful out today and I have a little boy standing by the window waiting to get outside and play.



a birthday party and a little tutorial


We celebrated my baby"s toddler's birthday last month, and I have been meaning to post a little bit of the party, but the month got away from me, and now April is slipping away too, I wish time could just slow down a bit.
The week of O's birthday was a rather rough one for me, John left the day before Oscar's birthday for work and was gone that entire week. This was the first time he had been gone so long since Oscar had been born and we both O and I cried our eyes out as his truck backed out of our driveway, but we got thru it by keeping very busy and doing lots of snuggling at night until daddy returned home. I was also a little emotional because my little baby, was growing up into a walking, talking toddler and it is just going by too fast for my liking, I also was NOT looking forward to turning 31 that same week, but thank God for great friends and family who kept checking in with O and me, making sure that we were ok.  
We had planned on having a small birthday brunch the weekend after O's birthday so that his daddy would be home to celebrate with us, but at the last minute I decided that I needed to do something special on the actual day, whether daddy was there or not. So I invited a few people over to enjoy some cake and ice cream with us. It was such a nice time spent with family and friends reminiscing and laughing, and Oscar and I really enjoyed having the company over to keep our minds off of how we were missing daddy like crazy.



He eats his cake just like his mommy...with both hand and as much in the mouth as possible.



Oscar got some great books to read. We love books in this house, they are the perfect gift... you can never have too many, they don't take up much space...and one of the greatest things in this world is snuggling up with my little guy and reading book, after book, after book, after book, after.....

Like I mentioned this little cake and ice cream party was pretty last minute so I didn't have much time to prepare, but I knew I wanted to make some kind of cake for O's big day.

 I am sure you have seen the famous rainbow cake posted out on blog land. I created something similar last summer for an uncle's birthday party, and decided to do the same for Oscar's cake. While the rainbow cake is beautiful, and I am sure delicious, I don't have the time or energy to do THAT cake. So I improvised on mine a bit.....ok a lot....I used a box cake mix. 
I did the same thing last year for my uncle's birthday cake, but I made his the entire rainbow. For O's cake I stuck to 4 colors. This tutorial will do any version of the cake, and I have added some side notes for the full rainbow cake.


For this cake I used a box mix and a can of frosting. I am sure you could use any cake mix that you prefer, but you want to make sure it is white so that your colors will be vibrant.
As far as frosting; you can use pretty much any color or flavor, but my personal favorite is good ol' butter cream.
* I used two cans of frosting for this cake, one for the layers and one to cover the outside.
* you can also use two boxes of cake mix to make the layers of your cake thicker, if you plan on doing a full rainbow cake I recommend this, but for my 4 layer cake one box worked out just fine. (if you plan on making the full rainbow cake (6 layers), you may need an extra can of frosting too, as I had just enough to cover my 4 layer cake.)


Prepare your cake according to package instructions, and then divide up the batter into individual bowls, one for each color you will be doing. ex: if you are making the full rainbow cake you will need  6 different bowls. The original rainbow cake blog post suggested that you use a scale to evenly divide your cake batter, but I didn't do this. I simply used a measuring cup and put one scoop of batter into each bowl one at a time (like I was dealing a deck of cards out) then when I came to the end of my batter I eye-balled the rest to even it out. I haven't had a problem doing it this way, but if you would like to make sure that all of your layers are exactly the same thickness, follow her instructions for dividing up the batter.


Once I had my batter divided up into individual bowls I used gel food coloring to get the colors I was looking for. I used the table cloth as a guide to my colors. I wish I wrote down exactly how many drops of each color I used for each color, but I didn't, I just kept adding until it looked right.
To get the blues more "vintage looking" (less bright) I added a small bit of red to the color.
To tone down the red, I added a bit of blue, and to mute the yellow down a little I added drops of blue and green.
If you are trying to get the same look with your colors, my advice is to take it slow. Mix the main color first, after you get the intensity of the color you are after, add very small drops of the other colors to tone it down, mixing after each drop of color. You would be surprised how quickly you can go from a vivid blue to icky brown if you add too many drops of red.


After all my colors were mixed,
I lined the bottom of round cake pans with parchment paper and made sure that the sides were greased so that I could easily get my layers out when they were done baking.

Then poured my colored batter into the cake pan (one pan for each color), then placed all 4 of my pans in the oven to bake. I used the box instructions for baking temp and time, but watched them very closely. The lighter colors were very close to the baking instructions on the box, but I did take the darker blue and red out a few minutes early since they baked up faster. Just use the instructions as a guide, and stay close by the kitchen during baking time, every one's oven is different, and depending on how thick your layers are or how dark your colors are, the baking times will vary.

When your layers are all done baking, you will need to let them cool before assembling your cake. I like to use a cookie sheets flipped upside down with a sheet of parchment paper on top for my cooling rack because I never have enough room and it works really well for me to move the layers around with out breaking them this way.


Line your cake plate with 3 to 4 pieces of parchment paper so that they are covering the plate itself, but are easily removed once you are done decorating the cake. (I like to use 3 strips of parchment paper about 2 to 4 inches wide and I lay them across the outer side of the cake plate, leaving a large triangle where the cake will go)
Lay your first layer down on the cake plate and add a thin layer of frosting across the top.
You can really go easy on the frosting here, just a little to act as a glue for the next layer, too much frosting and your layers will slide off each other.
Continue doing this layer by layer, once I have the inside of my cake assembled, I like to add a thin layer of frosting all over the outside of my cake.  At this point all my frosting is soft and more likely to move around, so I then place it in the fridge for a few hours to "set a little".


When my cake frosting has "set" and is easier to work with, I simply add more frosting to the outside working from the top of the cake to the sides until it is evenly covered.
Add any type of sprinkles, jimmies or candies to the outside that you would like, or just leave it plain, what ever your little heart desires.
I personally like to use sugar sprinkles on my cake. I love the little crunchy bites they give to a very smooth cake, and everyone at the party must of agreed because there was not a crumb left on any one's plate.

I had a entire file saved up of birthday ideas for Oscar's first birthday, but didn't do any of them. I wanted to have a big party, have favor bags, send out great invitations and make a big deal out of the whole thing, but I am so happy that those plans didn't work out and instead we had a laid back simple party. I was under no stress and was able just to sit back and soak in the entire day. When Oscar is older, I will be able to tell him exactly what we did on his first birthday and who was all there.

When John got back we had the Grandparents over for breakfast and lunch but I was too busy enjoying the day with my husband, family and Oscar that I completely forgot to take pictures. Sorry.


The Best Place on Earth.



Did you know that Oscar loves books? Yep, it is true he will sit and listen to you read for a long time. And I do believe that sitting on Grandma's lap while reading a book...well, in Oscar's mind that adds up to a perfect day.

A new year.

2010 was great...fantastic actually. My best memory from 2010 (and will forever be one of the best memories of my life) was the day Oscar was born.
We have had so much fun watching him grow in 2010 and are looking forward to all the new adventures 2011 will bring.




I am starting off 2011 with a 21 day detox diet, and have hesitated to write about it for fear that I might fail, but I decided that I am going to update you from time to time on how it is going in hopes that by writing about it I will stick to the plan and make some healthy choices. I will be following the detox plan from Kris Carr's book Crazy Sexy Diet: Eat Your Veggies, Ignite Your Spark and Live Like You Mean It! There are a few of us on board including this lady and her Mama and if you would like to join us feel free to email me and we will all support each other as we eat our veggies and drink our juice. I did some stumbling around on the web for other detox plans and found that Martha Stewart is also doing one that is similar, but not quite as strict check it out too if you are interested. I am planning on combining the two because I really like her workout plans.

I am also looking forward to 2011 because of the shop I have been telling you all about for months and months now, well it will be opening up SOON. I promise. I was overwhelmed and very grateful for all the Christmas orders I had just from posting a few things here and there on this blog, but by the time I had those orders filled and Christmas came around, I was so sick of my sewing machine that I needed a little break, but NOW, I am ready to get back on the horse and sew, sew, sew for the shop. I have some fun ideas and am excited to launch them in 2011. I will let you know as soon as I "open shop".

"May your coming year be fill with magic and dreams and good and madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you are wonderful, and don't forget to make some art - write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope somewhere in the next year you surprise yourself." - Neil Gaiman





My Little Lumberjack



Oscar was originally going to be Elvis, but I had some issues with making his costume, so last minute I decided to make him a little lumberjack. And I think he liked it. I know I did.



 At the end of the day Oscar changed into a skeleton for the evening. He was such a good little trooper letting me dress him up, but to be honest, he is most days. We had a great first Halloween with him and are already coming up with ideas for next year. I hope you all had a nice Halloween as well.

Oscar and His Dad




Oscar just admires John. He gets so excited when he gets home from work. And, John is GREAT with him. I feel so lucky to have such a wonderful husband to me and an awesome father for Oscar. Look at these two, all snuggled up together on the couch. Aren't they cute?


Fall Gathering 2010

We had a fun little picnic this weekend to celebrate my brother visiting from the Navy. We met at a park on a hill overlooking all the trees which were all beautiful reds, oranges and yellows. The weather was great and food was delicious. We had a few bugs bother us, Oscar needed a nap and we were missing a few family members, but other than that...the day was absolutely perfect!

Oscar loves these girls!



Oscar and Grandma take advantage of the beautiful backdrop.


We decided that we needed a family picture too!



Oscar and Daddy






We seriously had to do a song and dance just to get Oscar to crack a slight smile that day... he was in dire need of a nap, but despite the lack of sleep, nothing could stop him from practicing his crawling.
He had us all on the edge of our seats thinking that he was going to crawl for the first time that day, he is getting so CLOSE!


I just love that EVERYONE in our families adores Oscar just as much as we do and wants to spend so much time with us. We are looking forward to the next family get together.

Visiting Jesse

We spent last weekend in Chicago for my brother Jesse's graduation from the Navy.


This was the first time Jesse got to meet Oscar, and Oscar just loved him.


It was a little chilly in Chicago so we spent one day at the Museum of Modern Art.


This is Oscar as modern art.


Jesse is off to California today for 9 more weeks of training, and then he gets to come home for a few weeks.
I am SO looking forward to him coming home.
We miss him a lot, but are so proud of him.

{Jesse}

Today was a hard day. Today my brother Jesse left for the Navy. Jesse and I are only 5 years apart, but for some reason since the day Jesse was born, I have worried about him like a mother. When he was a baby, I worried when he cried. When he was a small boy, I worried when he got hurt. When he went to kindergarten, I worried that he would be scared. When he went to middle school, I worried that he wouldn't make friends. When he went to High School, I worried that the older kids would be mean to him. When he got his license, I worried that he wouldn’t wear his seatbelt. When he became a young adult, I worried that he wouldn’t make good choices. And tonight, as Jesse is alone in his hotel room, waiting to leave for boot camp tomorrow morning, I am worried that he is as sad as I am that he is leaving. I am worried that he is going to regret his decision, and not be able to come home. I am worried that he is scared. But, thinking about all the time I have worried about Jesse, everything has been ok, and I know that with this new adventure, this too will be ok. He will get to see things and places that I probably will never get the chance to see. This will probably be the “best decision he has ever made”, and I am excited to hear the amazing stories he will have to tell when he gets back. But, that doesn’t mean that I am going to stop worrying, I will probably worry about Jesse for the rest of our lives….that’s what big sisters are for.

Engagement Party

We had an engagement party for my cousin Dain and his new fiancĂ© Jessica.

Look at her beautiful ring.



and the really good cake.






my Mom and Sister brought these cute little Deviled Eggs with their pictures stuck in them.



It was such a nice party. And they are such a cute couple, can't wait for their wedding.


Grandma B.




I was organizing the pictures on my computer when all of a sudden a photo appeared that took my breath away.  I took these pictures of my Grandma Bleninger’s hands about a week before she passed away, and forgot about them until now. I have always wanted to do a post about my Grandma, and I think now, as we wrap up 2009, is a fitting time to remember such a great wife, mother, sister, and grandmother.


She was such a sweet lady. She was a quiet observer, she let us do all the talking and was very content just listing to our thoughts. Many, many times she watched all 10 of us grandchildren at the same time, and never once do I remember her loosing patients with any of us. I remember her helping me get to sleep by gently running her hands down my forehead and over my eyes. I would try to open my eyes in between strokes down, but eventually she would win and my eyes would stay shut for the night. When she became ill, I spent nights just rubbing her back, sometimes for the entire night, those were some of my favorite moments spent with her. I feel so lucky that I had the opportunity to spend so much time with my grandmother. My New Year’s resolution this year is to remember the things I have learned from my Grandma Bleninger and try to incorporate them into my life.



{What Grandma Bleninger has taught me}


Always eat breakfast


Go for a walk every day


Do less talking and more listing


Don’t be so quick to throw things away


And enjoy your dessert

Christmas with the Slattery's

Takara and Emily got cameras
Emily also asked for hand sanitizer for Christmas...a girl after my own heart.



Maddy



John



Carson
*deep into his new video game*



Caitlin



Takara, Emily, and Caitlin
I just love this picture!



Jackson



Jackson's hands, don't you love the dimples




And Takara's feet, so sweet.




Children make Christmas so much fun. They were so excited from beginning to end, and so grateful for all their gifts. The little girls each got a doll, but it was put in an old check book box...they were so excited to get checks! They kept jumping up and down say "we can write checks, we can write checks!" It was so cute. I can't wait until next year when we have our own little guy to spend Christmas with.

Christmas Eve 2009

Snow canceled our travel plans for Christmas this year, but I can't complain too much because is was beautiful outside. I love waking up to fresh snow on the ground. We didn't get as much as I expected, but they say more is coming so we are staying put. I spent most of the day baking and knitting (all the things you should be doing when a blizzard hits).


Norton even had a blast in the snow today... for a few minutes anyway, and then just like his mom (I mean master) he enjoyed looking out the window at all the snow while we snuggled up in a nice warm house.





I hope every one is safe and warm just like the Slattery's are today!


I also wanted to share the pictures we took for Christmas this year. I especially like these, because being pregnant, I am not looking so hot in pictures these days....so this shot just shows my legs, which I can live with.



And then....



a very cute one of Mom and Dad.